Welcome to Unlocking Relationships.
This blog explores relationship issues and solutions.
Much of what will be examined comes from over a decade of work in my private practice.
If you are in a relationship that is struggling or you are an individual struggling with relationship issues, I believe you will find these blogs informative and helpful.
Please feel free to contact me if the reading sparks questions that are not answered in the writing.
The Art of an Apology—And the Grace of Receiving One
Why Saying “Sorry” Isn’t Enough
Relationships aren’t defined by how often we get it right, but by how we repair...
“I Want Spontaneity, but I Need Consistency”
Why This Common Relationship Dichotomy Creates Friction — and How Couples Can Work With It
Every long-term relationship is...
Emotional Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships — A Two-Part Series
What Emotional Engagement Actually Looks Like
Part 2: How Couples Build Connection Day to Day
The Confusion Around...
Emotional Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships — A Two-Part Series
When Men Say, “We’d Be Fine If We Had More Sex”
Part 1: Why Sexual Conflict Is Rarely About Sex
The...
Is Honesty the Best Policy?
Defining Honesty
The foundation of every intimate relationship is honesty. However, not all honesty is created equal. When it comes to our thoughts, can...
Trust Means More Than Faithfulness
How Trust Gets Reduced To Fidelity
For many people, trust in a relationship is measured almost exclusively by sexual faithfulness.
This is a point...
Part-Time Partners
One Foot In
Many people in relationships want the safety, comfort, and emotional security that partnership provides—without fully committing to the responsibilities...
Prioritizing Our Partners
When Prioritization Fades
Most of us would agree that prioritizing our partners is important. However, how many of us actually do it? Better yet, how many...
Relationships Are Work
Why You Should Read This Blog
My first article explained why I created a blog about relationships. This second entry describes why you should read it. ...
Unlocking Relationships:
An Introduction to the Blog:
My name is Edward Bowz. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, working in private practice for over a decade. I have...